Friday, June 29, 2012

What's in a name?


Hello everyone

Often I am asked by people "do I have to change my name".  The question is asked both before couples get married and when they separate and divorce.

The answer is simple.  Women who marry have the choice.  They can use their maiden name.  They can use their married name.  They can use both names (for example one professionally and one socially) or they can combine/hyphen the two.

When women separate, they do not have to go back to their maiden name.  Once again they can choose.  If women remarry they can continue to use the name of their first husband rather than their second husband, and many women do this if they have children to their first marriage.

I have been asked by male clients if they can insist that their former wives change their names at the end of the marriage.  Unfortunately they cannot.  It remains the choice of the wife.

For a married woman to change her name she simply needs a copy of her marriage certificate.  She does not have to formally register her new name.

If you do not marry you cannot just assume the name of your de facto.  If you want to use your de facto's surname you will have to make an application to Births Deaths and Marriages to change your name.

It is far more difficult to change the surname of a child.  If both parents' names are on a child's birth certificate then both must agree to the name change. A child's name cannot be change unilaterally.  It can't be hyphenated after it is registered unless both parents agree.  If both parents do not agree, notwithstanding that one parent has no role in the life of the child in question, then to change the name you will need to obtain an order of the court.

As always please feel free to comment on this or any other of my blogs.  I would also be happy to respond to any questions you may have on this topic.

If you have any further queries please feel free to contact me directly at Septimus Jones & Lee on (03) 9613 6555